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Straight Veteran: “Let Gays Serve, Be Remembered With Open, Equal Pride”

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This open letter was sent to me by a reader, James Fallis (photo.) He writes, “I am a retired US Marine, with over 17 years of service in Infantry, Artillery, Reconnaissance units, and have been personally decorated three times for meritorious service. I have served as a member of C company, 2nd Reconnaissance Battalion-2nd Marine Division, during the ground combat phase of Operation Desert Storm. I spent four years in the Mid-west Recruiting region as a Marine Corps Recruiter, and Recruiter Supervisor. I now work for a Services and Transportation consulting firm owned by a fellow veteran, and I currently live in Waukegan, Illinois with my wife of five years.”

We thank him for his service to his country, and to the better ideals of humanity.

To The American People:

“We hold these truths to be self evident…..” Among those who have served this nation, we’ve mostly asked for no thanks. Never have we sought, nor have we petitioned our countrymen for the pedestal upon which we may have been hastily placed.

We ask for no ribbons, no bumper stickers, or hero worship. We seek not the charade of adorned motorcycles, who roar to a funeral dirge. There is no glory after all in creating mythology around those who simply follow the order to crush the world under Caesar’s foot. The true heroes, to a man it is believed with almost universal agreement amongst the brothers and sisters, who create the living fraternity of battle, are the ones who never come home from war.

For them we ask that you remember this: for their remaining hope of a justified sacrifice we ask that you, our nation live up to the deeds for which we have abandoned to war the pleasant fiction of a normal life. We have chosen as free men and women, to serve, to sacrifice, and to surrender our lives to fate for the sake of our country. Honor this, and let our Gay Brothers and Sisters serve and be remembered with open and equal pride.

Let anyone who wishes to demean the honor of our Gay veterans by denying service to these men and women, remember three things:

1.)   For those of you who choose to place a thin cotton flag on a small pine stick, on the graves of the veteran, remember that somewhere beneath you lies a Gay Man or Woman.

2.)   For those of you who parade with flags adorned, two across, aligned and covered, realize that the one’s whose coffin you follow with your yellow banded notion of “guarding,” could be the body of one who knew love far beyond what the feeble institutions of the Church and State say it should be.

3.)   For those among you who mask your reasonable doubt about our wars, with a fevered sense of self patriotism, know that among those who shoulder the burden of your misplaced pride, are the battle weary who at this very moment, cry for the company of another man or another woman. But alone they remain, gazing at star filled and silent desert night skies.

Lt. Dan Choi, who by coming out this past year has come to symbolize the ridiculous and dishonorable nature of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” Choi is a Giant amongst men, and a soldier of virtue. Let him take his place with us with pride, openness, and honor. When I was younger I breathed in the long and saturated breaths of oil fire smoke, in America’s first war in the desert. At night, when the rounds hummed their high pitched whine over head, and when the thunder of fragmented blazing hot steel broke open the hearts of simple men, I did not ask who soldiers like Dan Choi lay with. I only asked that they carried the moment with me.

The time has come now for the Nation we love to live up to the sacrifices we have made. Put away your ribbons, your bows, and your car magnets. Leave your rallies for another time. Take off your lapel pins, and recycle their thin metal for some other good. Songs and symbols of a confused sense of pride have no place in today’s war. If, but only if the people those symbols were made to honor are treated as equal among men and women of honor.

It is time for you to stand tall and remember out loud, the service and tragic death of the Gay veteran. Their deeds have shown that they have never surrendered themselves or any free persons to the legions of intolerance, fear, hate, and oppression. Neither should any of you.

James Fallis

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Platner Scorched Over ‘Taking Time’ Video After New Accusation

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Maine Democratic U.S. Senate nominee Graham Platner is under fire after releasing a video declaring that new allegations against him are false, yet he is “taking time to reflect” on a path forward.

Politico on Monday afternoon reported that a woman who dated Platner, Jenny Racicot, “says he forced her to have sex with him nearly five years ago despite her repeated objections, an allegation Platner denies.”

“Racicot said she had an on-and-off relationship with Platner,” Politico reported, “for more than two years before he entered her rural Maine home uninvited one night in late 2021, deeply intoxicated, and forced himself on her while she repeatedly told him to stop. She said she cut off contact with him after telling him the encounter was not consensual.”

In a video posted to social media eleven minutes after the Politico story dropped, Platner says, “I wanted to directly address the troubling, serious, and false allegations against me. Any accusation of nonconsensual behavior is categorically false.”

He said he and his supporters “were united in a love of Maine, a belief that our politics must change, in a focus on defeating Susan Collins.”

“So, regardless of the inaccuracy of the reporting, but mindful the political reality will inflict, we are taking the time to reflect on the best path forward for the state that I love, the people that I love, the movement I belong to, and the goal of defeating Susan Collins.”

“Those were the goals when we launched this campaign. And they remain my goals today.”

“Throughout it all, you never turned your back on me. And I will not turn my back on you now. Every one of you deserves to see that vision come to fruition and see Susan Collins defeated. And we will use every tool at our disposal to do so.”

The Bulwark’s Tim Miller, a political commentator who served as the communications director for the Jeb Bush 2016 presidential campaign, blasted Platner.

“I’m sorry but ‘we are taking time to reflect on the best path forward’ is not an option on the table,” Miller wrote. “Either it’s false and you campaign with vigor or it’s true and you get out / apologize to everyone you let down.”

Journalist Ryan Grim, commenting on Platner’s video, noted that Platner “strongly suggests he is considering dropping out. Already Troy Jackson and Chellie Pingree, both gubernatorial candidates, are being kicked around in Maine circles as potential replacements.”

Several others, including Puck News’ Peter Hamby, predicted Platner will be dropping out.

Platner had postponed several campaign events before the Politico story was published.

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Trump Sparks Fury Online After Posting Unblurred Video of Muslim Kindergartners in Hijabs

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President Donald Trump is facing backlash after posting a video of children — including showing their unblurred faces — graduating from kindergarten, with some of the girls purportedly wearing hijabs.

“President Trump posted a captionless video of graduating kindergarteners on Truth Social on Monday, goading his supporters into verbally attacking little children simply for being Muslim,” The New Republic reported. “The clip is from Gateway STEM Academy, a majority-Black K-8 public charter school in St. Paul, Minnesota. It shows about 21 children in caps and gowns on stage singing a song together. Most of the girls are wearing hijabs.”

The original post of the video which Trump reposted reads: “Public school in St. Paul, Minnesota. Every girl is in a hijab … in kindergarten.”

Trump did not add any comments. TNR called the post “Islamophobic, weird, and creepy,” while noting that the comments section of Trump’s post was filled with calls “by racist, xenophobic MAGA supporters” to “deport the children and ban hijabs.”

TNR also noted that it “should come as no surprise that Trump isn’t above attacking children who just learned how to read, but this post is still particularly discomforting—and will certainly contribute to the already potent level of anti-Muslim sentiment in the U.S. and in Minnesota.”

Critics blasted Trump.

“There is something deeply unsettling about the president of the United States—the most powerful person in the world—going after kindergarten schoolchildren in Minnesota because they wore hijabs, as Trump has done this morning on his website,” The Bulwark’s Sam Stein wrote.

One social media commentator wrote, “Trump posted an unblurred video of more than a dozen Muslim kindergartners to Truth Social, exposing the children’s faces while targeting them for their religion.”

Another added, “Trump is a bigot. The president took to Truth Social to attack kindergarteners in hijabs. These are little kids. The president isn’t just a bigot, he’s also a coward.”

The original video was posted to the X social media platform in June.

U.S. Rep. Nancy Mace (R-SC) at the time commented, “If you are in a public school in America, you should be speaking english.”

 

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One Legal Maneuver Threatens to Undo Everything E. Jean Carroll Won

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President Donald Trump’s apparent efforts to delay releasing the $5.8 million civil judgment to E. Jean Carroll are being met with a warning by the journalist’s legal team, who suggest there could be a legal maneuver for Trump to employ to forgo paying the judgment in either of the two cases he lost.

According to The Guardian, on July 4, U.S. District Judge Lewis Kaplan ordered Trump to release the $5.8 million judgment, which is in escrow, to Carroll by this coming Tuesday — or explain why he would not do so.

Carroll’s attorneys think Trump may be trying to buy time to mount another legal strategy, telling the judge that Trump’s request for an extension “appears to be little more than yet another play for time.”

“The case is separate from Trump’s appeal of a Manhattan civil jury’s 2024 award of $83.3m to Carroll for defamation,” The Guardian explains. “But her lawyers have suggested a legal scenario in which the president might seek to conjoin the cases and further delay payment of both.”

Carroll’s attorney Roberta Kaplan (no relation to the judge) wrote, “We can only assume that defendant is seeking … to buy time so he can try to concoct some new basis to put off paying plaintiff presumably in connection with his forthcoming petition and motion for a rehearing.”

Trump’s former attorney, Justin Smith, in one of his final acts, wrote to the Supreme Court suggesting that his client would be appealing the $83.3 million civil judgment.

Smith argued that the Supreme Court “may wish to consider the petitions together,” given they involve the same parties.

The larger judgment case involves possible questions of presidential immunity, and that has Carroll’s attorneys concerned.

“A conjoined case, Carroll’s lawyers fear, could result in both judgments being wiped out,” The Guardian reports.

The president has also made clear he is no fan of Judge Kaplan, after the jurist made several rulings that “angered” Trump.

“What else can you expect from a Trump Hating, Clinton appointed judge, who went out of his way to make sure that the result was as negative as it could possible be,” Trump wrote on Truth Social in 2023, “speaking to, and in control of, a jury from an anti-Trump area which is probably the worst place in the US for me to get a fair ‘trial’.”

 

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