Vanity Fair’s “Fags” And Hugh Grant’s “Queen”
This weekend pop-culture magazine Vanity Fair’s Brett Berk, reviewing the latest episode of “Glee,” used the word “fags” to describe two gay characters, played by Chris Coffer and Darren Criss. Also this weekend, actor Hugh Grant speaking on a BBC radio interview about playing rugby said, “I discovered it hurt less if you tackled hard than if you tackled like a queen.”
Evidently it was open season on homosexuals this weekend.
While both Berk and the BBC have apologized, the following need to be mentioned.
Berk is gay, and in an update to his piece, wrote,
“I would like to apologize sincerely to anyone I offended with the use of the term “fag†(now removed) in this “Gay Guide to Glee†column. As an openly gay writer writing in an overtly overblown style, my intent in using the word in this offhanded way was to continue my consistent efforts to confront and challenge stereotype, to unpack the way in which language works, and to deconstruct the clever gender politics at play in the scene I described: teasing out the purposeful incongruity of this (foamy) attempt to make the conspicuously gay Dalton Warblers seem “sexy†to females. Anyone with even a whiff of familiarity with my writing will know that I am, and have long been, a tireless agitator, here at VF.com and elsewhere, for gay rights, as well as a huge supporter of everythingGlee has accomplished in advancing a meaningful dialogue about homosexuality in our popular culture—and in our youth culture in particular.”
Vanity Fair’s editors should have known better.
And Queerty needs to apologize too. Today, “JD,” writing at the National Enquirer of LGBT blogs, writes, “Hey everyone! Guess what? Gay people get to use the word “fag.” Even gay people writing for major magazines. It’s our word! It’s not for heterosexuals, even your best fag hag.”
Um, no. “Fag” is a derogatory word.
I don’t know about you, but I recoil when I hear African-Americans using the “n” word, and when I hear gays using the “f” word.
But Grant, hasn’t apologized, and he should. We’re waiting.
While we’re on the topic of using derogatory words in non-derogatory fashion, my two cents: stop it.
Using words like “fag,” or the “n” word, etc., does not make them less-derogatiory, it just puts them out there more. You cannot cleanse a word of its history, nor should you. Trying to is akin to Virginia GOP Governor Bob McDonnell’s “Confederate History Month” proclamation that conveniently neglected to mention slavery.
(Big congrats to Back2Stonewall.com for calling Berk out first.)
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