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On Valentine’s Day, Monday, February 14th, Marriage Equality New York, GetEQUAL NY, the Metropolitan Community Church (MCCNY), Queer Rising, and many fellow New Yorkers will convene at the Manhattan Marriage Bureau, near City Hall in lower Manhattan, and stand beside a devoted couple, Rob Lassegue and Manuel Reyes, as they attempt to join the more than 1.2 million couples who have been joined in marriage there since 1930.

Justin Elzie talked with the couple Saturday afternoon and asked them to share why they decided to try get a marriage license here in New York City, and about the symbolic, spiritual wedding ceremony that will take place downtown on Monday morning.

Justin: So what is going to happen this Monday, guys?

Rob: Well, we are going to go into the marriage bureau here in New York City and apply for a marriage license, which sadly enough we expect to be denied. If we are denied, then we will go outside the marriage bureau and have a symbolic spiritual marriage ceremony performed out front by Reverend Pat with the Metropolitan Community Church here in New York City.

We will have a symbolic spiritual marriage ceremony because civil marriage is not available to us here in New York City. Civil marriage is what Marriage Equality New York (MENY) and other LGBT organizations are pushing for.

Justin: What made you guys decide to be the couple to get married Monday?

Rob: I was not going to get married until civil marriage became the law, but we decided to go ahead and take the baby steps to get the spiritual marriage while we wait for civil marriage here in New York.

Justin: How long did it take for you guys to decide?

Rob: Six text messages.

(Laughter)

Justin: But obviously you’ve discussed this before. How long ago?

Manuel: We discussed it back about a year and half ago.

Justin: Who proposed to whom?

Rob: I asked Manuel.

Justin: Did he say yes right away?

Rob: Yes.

Manuel: No, I told him I had to think about it and then I said yes.

(Laughter)

Justin: How long have you two been together?

Rob/Manuel: Seven years this past November.

Justin: How did you guys meet?

Rob: We met at a club on Long Island.

Justin: Was it love at first site?

Manuel: No, I made him work for it.

(Laughter)

Justin: Where are you guys from?

Rob: Long Island, New York.

Manuel: Mexico.

Justin: Rob, tell us a little bit about your work on marriage equality?

Rob: I started in 1999 as a volunteer for Marriage Equality New York (MENY). In 2000, I started a Long Island chapter for MENY and in 2003 I joined the MENY state board. In 2001 I organized the first Wedding Expo for LGBT couples in the state of New York, on Long Island.

Justin: Do you expect marriage equality to be passed in New York this year?

Rob: Having participated in the MENY Albany Marriage Lobbying day this past week, I am very confident that the marriage bill will be coming up again soon. Governor Andrew Cuomo told Senator Tom Duane that he should bring up the bill this year again.

Justin: Do you think there will be more votes this year?

Rob: I am thinking that from what we saw at the Albany Marriage Equality Lobbying day that due to the lobbying, I think that there is room to build relationships that could translate into votes. We cannot do this without Republicans.

Justin: So what is MENY doing to reach out to Republicans?

Rob: MENY is working with Gregory Angelo from the Log Cabin Republicans.

Justin: If marriage equality is passed in New York will you be getting a real church wedding?

Rob: Church wedding no, but definitely a civil marriage ceremony.

Justin: Why is getting married so important to you guys?

Manuel: I want to have the same publically recognized relationship with my partner that other people have with theirs.

Rob: The reason I got involved in pushing for marriage equality is because I don’t think that anyone should be excluded from civil marriage rights. Plus, I am a huge advocate for the separation of church and state.

Justin: Then why are you getting a spiritual symbolic wedding?

Rob: Because the message we are sending is that a lot of mainline clergy support same-sex marriage, actually nationwide one third do, according to recent polls. Not to mention, some Jewish Synagogues and some mainline Protestant churches, i.e., Episcopalian, Methodist and others, support same-sex marriage, but the state denies the civil marriage license.

Justin: What is one thing that you guys want readers to know when they read this interview?

Rob: We wanted to do this to bring more awareness. A lot of people don’t realize that we don’t get over 1,138 federal rights that heterosexual couples get and 1,324 rights and benefits at the state level here in New York. So in doing this wedding, we wanted to bring about more awareness on this issue.

Justin: Manuel, because you are new resident from Mexico here in New York, do you think that this will give you more stability here in the U.S. when the state finally comes around to recognizing your marriage? Is that part of why you wanted to do this?

Manuel: Yes. I told my sister in Mexico, and she has sent us congratulations. She wanted to be here to support me. I feel very happy and sad at the same time because the state will not give us the equal rights that come with civil marriage.

Justin: Thank you guys for sitting down with me and sharing why you guys are getting married. Congratulations and I hope that others will be educated and inspired by your example!

You are cordially invited to witness the marriage of Rob Lassegue and Manuel Reyes this Valentine’s Day, Monday February 14th, 8:00 AM at the Marriage Bureau of Lower Manhattan, 141 Worth Street, New York, NY. Please show your support for marriage equality in New York by joining the rally.

Justin Elzie is an actor and writer living in New York. He recently wrote and published a memoir titled, “Playing By the Rules,” which details his life as the first Marine to be discharged under “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” and the first Marine to serve openly-gay in the Marines. Here writes about environmental and civil rights issues.

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“A shocking number of the president’s supporters have turned against him,” the columnists write.

“When Trump opens his mouth, three-quarters of what he says is stories, lies,” Tomas Montoya, a Trump voter, told The Atlantic outside a popular Hispanic grocery store in Casa Grande, Arizona.

“Montoya voted for President Trump in 2024, but now, well, frustrated doesn’t begin to cover how he’s feeling. The president is bragging about the economy, even though everyone Montoya knows is hurting; he promised to stop wars, but started one in Iran,” The Atlantic notes. “He’s planning to vote in the midterm elections this fall. But he may not choose a Republican.”

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They describe some of Trump’s “fanboys in the libertarian-leaning manosphere” as “baffled by his actions on the Epstein files, immigration, and now Iran.”

Religious conservatives “have been criticizing their once-unassailable leader after he posted a photo on social media of himself as Jesus and attacked the pope, calling the first American pontiff ‘WEAK on Crime.'”

Some battleground Republican operatives would prefer the president not campaign “too hard” for their candidates.

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One 61-year-old Democrat who opted to vote for Trump in 2024 hoping he would bring down high prices says she is poorer today than she was two years ago.

“High gas prices mean that she is staying home more often—skipping Bible studies at her church, volunteering less, and even missing exercise classes. Trump’s decision to go to war with Iran was her breaking point with the president. ‘I think that he just wants war,’ she said. ‘He’s made it plain that he’s adversarial with everybody.'”

Trump’s highly controversial AI post of himself “dressed in flowing robes, surrounded by a heavenly glow while healing a sick man … alienated the one group of Americans that has rarely left his side: Christian conservatives. The picture, declared the Daily Wire reporter Megan Basham, was ‘OUTRAGEOUS blasphemy.'”

Far-right pastor Joel Webbon, who, The Atlantic noted, opposes women being allowed to vote, said that Trump is “currently demon possessed.”

Anti-trans activist Riley Gaines, whom the president has called a “tremendous athlete,” wrote that “God shall not be mocked.”

Some fundraising “plummeted” in early March after Trump launched his Iran war.

“If this is a two-week stretch, not a huge deal,” a GOP consultant told The Atlantic. “If we’re still bombing Iran in November? I mean …”

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“I don’t think it’s necessary,” Trump declared on Thursday afternoon, despite new poll numbers that show his support among Catholics slipping after his attacks on the pontiff.

Earlier on Thursday, Pope Leo had posted to social media a message some thought was meant for the president.

“Woe to those who manipulate religion and the very name of God for their own military, economic, and political gain, dragging that which is sacred into darkness and filth,” he wrote.

Asked specifically about it, Trump did not answer directly, instead telling reporters that it’s “very important that the Pope understands, very, very important…Iran cannot have a nuclear weapon.”

Trump also told reporters, “I’m all about the Gospel. I’m all about it as much as anybody can be!”

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Conservative Christian evangelist Franklin Graham is rushing to President Donald Trump’s aid, defending an image the president posted that appeared to depict him as Jesus Christ, “bathed in divine light and clad in religious robes,” as The New York Times described, and one of the president with Jesus Christ. One conservative Christian broadcaster isn’t buying Graham’s defense.

“I do not believe President Trump would knowingly depict himself as Jesus Christ—that would certainly be inappropriate,” Graham wrote on social media on Thursday. “I’m thankful the President has made it very clear that this was not at all what he thought the AI-generated image was representing—he thought it was a doctor helping someone, and when he learned of the concerns, he immediately removed the post.”

“I think this is a lot to do about nothing,” Graham continued, noting that there were no halos, crosses, or angels in the illustration. “There is so much ill-intended speculation. I think his enemies are always foaming at the mouth at any possible opportunity to make him look bad.”

He went on to defend an image Trump also posted that appeared to show him being embraced by Christ.

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“I like the fact that this is a picture of Jesus whispering in his ear, or at least His hand on his shoulder, guiding him,” Graham declared. “We all need that—we all need to be listening to Jesus…Remember, President Trump didn’t draw this, he didn’t create it, he reposted it on his social media because he thought it was nice—I would have to agree.”

Graham called Trump the “most pro-Christian, pro-life president in my lifetime,” and suggested the Pope should “thank the President for his efforts to protect religious liberty for Catholics and people of all faiths.”

Erick Erickson, a conservative evangelical talk radio host and political commentator once described as the “most powerful conservative in America,” blasted Graham’s remarks.

“This is embarrassing,” he wrote in response to Graham’s post.

He was not alone in his condemnation.

“So laughable it’s sad. Sycophancy comes to the Graham name. Deeply unserious,” declared Professor Matthew Boedy, who focuses on the rhetoric of religion.

Republican former U.S. Rep. Marjorie Taylor Greene, a former Trump ally, also blasted Graham.

“Franklin Graham making excuses for Trump posting himself as Jesus is one of the worst things I’ve seen,” she wrote. “Trump posted his blasphemous picture with Satan added above him, the original picture had a soldier. If you search ‘pictures of Jesus’ most of them show Jesus in white with a red robe over his shoulders. Franklin Graham of all people, who is frequently at the WH and with Trump, should be leading Trump to be a Christian, NOT telling other Christians that Trump did nothing wrong when he committed blasphemy.”

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