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On Valentine’s Day, Monday, February 14th, Marriage Equality New York, GetEQUAL NY, the Metropolitan Community Church (MCCNY), Queer Rising, and many fellow New Yorkers will convene at the Manhattan Marriage Bureau, near City Hall in lower Manhattan, and stand beside a devoted couple, Rob Lassegue and Manuel Reyes, as they attempt to join the more than 1.2 million couples who have been joined in marriage there since 1930.

Justin Elzie talked with the couple Saturday afternoon and asked them to share why they decided to try get a marriage license here in New York City, and about the symbolic, spiritual wedding ceremony that will take place downtown on Monday morning.

Justin: So what is going to happen this Monday, guys?

Rob: Well, we are going to go into the marriage bureau here in New York City and apply for a marriage license, which sadly enough we expect to be denied. If we are denied, then we will go outside the marriage bureau and have a symbolic spiritual marriage ceremony performed out front by Reverend Pat with the Metropolitan Community Church here in New York City.

We will have a symbolic spiritual marriage ceremony because civil marriage is not available to us here in New York City. Civil marriage is what Marriage Equality New York (MENY) and other LGBT organizations are pushing for.

Justin: What made you guys decide to be the couple to get married Monday?

Rob: I was not going to get married until civil marriage became the law, but we decided to go ahead and take the baby steps to get the spiritual marriage while we wait for civil marriage here in New York.

Justin: How long did it take for you guys to decide?

Rob: Six text messages.

(Laughter)

Justin: But obviously you’ve discussed this before. How long ago?

Manuel: We discussed it back about a year and half ago.

Justin: Who proposed to whom?

Rob: I asked Manuel.

Justin: Did he say yes right away?

Rob: Yes.

Manuel: No, I told him I had to think about it and then I said yes.

(Laughter)

Justin: How long have you two been together?

Rob/Manuel: Seven years this past November.

Justin: How did you guys meet?

Rob: We met at a club on Long Island.

Justin: Was it love at first site?

Manuel: No, I made him work for it.

(Laughter)

Justin: Where are you guys from?

Rob: Long Island, New York.

Manuel: Mexico.

Justin: Rob, tell us a little bit about your work on marriage equality?

Rob: I started in 1999 as a volunteer for Marriage Equality New York (MENY). In 2000, I started a Long Island chapter for MENY and in 2003 I joined the MENY state board. In 2001 I organized the first Wedding Expo for LGBT couples in the state of New York, on Long Island.

Justin: Do you expect marriage equality to be passed in New York this year?

Rob: Having participated in the MENY Albany Marriage Lobbying day this past week, I am very confident that the marriage bill will be coming up again soon. Governor Andrew Cuomo told Senator Tom Duane that he should bring up the bill this year again.

Justin: Do you think there will be more votes this year?

Rob: I am thinking that from what we saw at the Albany Marriage Equality Lobbying day that due to the lobbying, I think that there is room to build relationships that could translate into votes. We cannot do this without Republicans.

Justin: So what is MENY doing to reach out to Republicans?

Rob: MENY is working with Gregory Angelo from the Log Cabin Republicans.

Justin: If marriage equality is passed in New York will you be getting a real church wedding?

Rob: Church wedding no, but definitely a civil marriage ceremony.

Justin: Why is getting married so important to you guys?

Manuel: I want to have the same publically recognized relationship with my partner that other people have with theirs.

Rob: The reason I got involved in pushing for marriage equality is because I don’t think that anyone should be excluded from civil marriage rights. Plus, I am a huge advocate for the separation of church and state.

Justin: Then why are you getting a spiritual symbolic wedding?

Rob: Because the message we are sending is that a lot of mainline clergy support same-sex marriage, actually nationwide one third do, according to recent polls. Not to mention, some Jewish Synagogues and some mainline Protestant churches, i.e., Episcopalian, Methodist and others, support same-sex marriage, but the state denies the civil marriage license.

Justin: What is one thing that you guys want readers to know when they read this interview?

Rob: We wanted to do this to bring more awareness. A lot of people don’t realize that we don’t get over 1,138 federal rights that heterosexual couples get and 1,324 rights and benefits at the state level here in New York. So in doing this wedding, we wanted to bring about more awareness on this issue.

Justin: Manuel, because you are new resident from Mexico here in New York, do you think that this will give you more stability here in the U.S. when the state finally comes around to recognizing your marriage? Is that part of why you wanted to do this?

Manuel: Yes. I told my sister in Mexico, and she has sent us congratulations. She wanted to be here to support me. I feel very happy and sad at the same time because the state will not give us the equal rights that come with civil marriage.

Justin: Thank you guys for sitting down with me and sharing why you guys are getting married. Congratulations and I hope that others will be educated and inspired by your example!

You are cordially invited to witness the marriage of Rob Lassegue and Manuel Reyes this Valentine’s Day, Monday February 14th, 8:00 AM at the Marriage Bureau of Lower Manhattan, 141 Worth Street, New York, NY. Please show your support for marriage equality in New York by joining the rally.

Justin Elzie is an actor and writer living in New York. He recently wrote and published a memoir titled, “Playing By the Rules,” which details his life as the first Marine to be discharged under “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” and the first Marine to serve openly-gay in the Marines. Here writes about environmental and civil rights issues.

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‘Political Protection Racket’: Bondi Blasted for Shrugging Off Security Breach Investigation

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Attorney General Pam Bondi is facing sharp criticism after strongly suggesting she will not authorize a criminal investigation into a major national security breach involving 18 top national security and defense officials from the Trump administration. Critics have pointed to her recent confirmation hearing, during which she vowed to keep the U.S. Department of Justice free from political influence.

Asked whether the Justice Department is investigating the Signalgate scandal, and if not, why not, the Attorney General claimed the information shared was “not classified”—in direct contradiction to the judgment of numerous national security and military experts.

‘Well, first, um, it was sensitive information, not classified, and inadvertently released and what we should be talking about is it was a very successful mission, she said, attempting to move the focus to the Yemen bombing. “Our world is now safer because of that mission. We’re not gonna comment any further on that.”

But Bondi then moved to attack top Democrats.

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“If you want to talk about classified information, talk about what was at Hillary Clinton’s home that she was trying to bleach bit, talk about the, that classified documents in Joe Biden’s garage that Hunter Biden had access to, she said, perpetrating right-wing misinformation about the former U.S. Secretary of State and presidential nominee, and re-introducing the Biden classified document issue, which was fully investigated by the Department of Justice.

“This was not classified information, and we are very pleased with the results of that operation and that the entire world is safer because of it,” Bondi re-iterated.

The New York Times, reporting on the Attorney General’s remarks, noted that the Justice Department “opened investigations into Mrs. Clinton and Mr. Biden in those instances, but neither ultimately faced criminal charges. She did not mention the prosecution of Mr. Trump over his handling of classified documents after his first term in office — a case which was ultimately abandoned when he won a second term.”

But the Times also noted that “Dating back to at least the Reagan administration, the government has considered the details of ‘military plans, weapons, or operations’ to be classified.”

U.S. Rep. Don Beyer (D-VA) is calling for a special counsel to investigate.

After noting that DOJ investigated Clinton and Biden, he added:

“Bondi sees the Justice Department as a political arm of Trump’s White House, she won’t do her job. That’s why we need a special counsel,” he wrote, adding, “Defense officials say Hegseth likely shared classified info on Signal. DOJ has to investigate this too.”

“Bringing up Hillary Clinton is not the own you think it is,” Congressman Beyer continued. “Republicans made her testify for 11 hours on her handling of classified information. I was there. Now the same Republicans are bending themselves into pretzels to justify what Hegseth did. They think you are stupid.”

Investigative journalist Roger Sollenberger remarked, “For what it’s worth, Joe Biden’s administration directed a Trump-appointed Republican to independently investigate Joe Biden for potentially mishandling classified information.”

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Sollenberger also chastised Bondi: “Openly political attorney general running an openly political protection racket in an openly politicized Justice Department after sworn Senate confirmation testimony that she would keep politics out of it.”

Calling Bondi’s remarks “Pathetic,” Political Science professor William Muck noted: “This is why a wall between the Attorney General and the president is so fundamental. Bondi most certainly knows the information was classified and warrants an investigation, but is unwilling to do her job because she fears it will upset the president.”

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‘No Adult Supervision’: Concern Escalates as Trump Increasingly Appears Out of Touch

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Concerns are mounting over President Donald Trump’s ability, willingness, or even interest in engaging with the most pressing issues facing the country, as he increasingly—and casually—admits to being unaware of critical matters. His repeated declarations of ignorance, often delivered without hesitation or concern, have deepened alarm among critics who warn of a dangerous void in informed leadership in the Oval Office.

Late Wednesday afternoon, a reporter asked President Trump, “Have you been briefed about the soldiers in Lithuania? Who are missing?”

The Commander-in-Chief, appearing both uninformed and unconcerned, simply replied, “No I haven’t.” And moved on to take a question from another reporter.

The four soldiers went missing on Tuesday during a training mission in Lithuania, near the border of Belarus, a staunch ally of Russia. On Wednesday, as Axios reported, their Hercules armored vehicle was found submerged. Hours before Trump was asked, NATO and numerous media outlets had reported the soldiers were dead, only to walk that back later. They currently remain missing.

But President Trump said he was unaware of any of this.

“Is Trump just totally out of the loop?” asked journalist Matthew Yglesias. “Why wasn’t he briefed on the soldiers in Lithuania?”

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Declaring President Trump “clueless” on “basic intel,” The New Republic on Thursday morning noted that “the armymen were known to be missing as early as Tuesday at 4:45 p.m., the Lithuanian military said, so why Trump was still unaware of the situation more than 24 hours later is unclear.”

Also Wednesday afternoon, President Trump was asked about his Secretary of Defense’s involvement in Signalgate. Pete Hegseth has been identified as the one who shared classified information in an insecure channel—seen as the greatest violation within the entire scandal. But the President appeared unaware of his Defense Secretary’s role in the massive nation security breach when asked by a reporter.

“Hegseth is doing a great job. He had nothing to do this. Hegseth? How do you bring Hegseth into it? He had nothing to do with it. Look, it’s all a witch hunt,” Trump told the reporter. He then went on to try to blame Signal, saying he thought it could be “defective.”

Attorney and former Biden White House senior presidential speechwriter Dan Cluchey, responded to the video of Trump’s remarks on Hegseth and Signal.

“This is stronger evidence of cognitive decline than anything Joe Biden has ever said in his life, ever,” he wrote, and warned: “Something tells me the press will breeze right past it.”

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Journalist James Surowiecki observed, Trump is “so checked out of his job that he doesn’t even know Hegseth needlessly disclosed the weapons packages and times of the attack on the Houthis.”

On Monday, Trump had told reporters when asked about the Signal scandal, “I don’t know anything about it.” Appearing as if he had not been briefed, he then asked a reporter for more information about it.

“Trump initially told reporters he was not aware that the highly sensitive information had been shared, 2 1/2 hours after it was reported. He later appeared to joke about the breach,” the Associated Press reported.

The Signal texts that The Atlantic had published also reveal the President’s apparent lack of awareness, on numerous fronts.

On Wednesday, asked by a reporter if he believed the information shared in the Signal chat was not classified, the Commander-in-Chief told reporters, “That’s what I’ve heard. I don’t know. I’m not sure, you have to ask the various people involved.”

The White House has repeatedly insisted it was not classified, but countless experts, including lawmakers, say it was classified.

Vice President JD Vance in the texts says, “I am not sure the president is aware how inconsistent this [military strike] is with his message on Europe right now.”

The Washington Post, citing a person with knowledge of Vance’s intentions, reported on Wednesday that “Vance wanted to ensure that Trump had been given all the facts about the potential attack, including that European nations stood to benefit more from it than the U.S.” That would suggest the Commander-in-Chief was not aware of “all the facts.”

Also of concern is that the 18 participants in the Signal chat appeared to be unsure of the President’s directive.

Calling him “President Bystander,” MSNBC’s Steve Benen writes, “Trump appears out of the loop in his own White House.”

Pointing to the Signal texts, Benen says one text “chain featured the White House’s Stephen Miller adding, in apparent reference to the attack plan, ‘As I heard it, the president was clear: green light.'”

“The problems should be obvious,” Benen added. “Vance was uncertain about Trump’s knowledge of the relevant details, and one of the president’s right-hand loyalists added an ‘as I heard it’ qualifier to the commander in chief’s directive about a deadly military operation abroad.”

The Commander-in-Chief appears to have been uninvolved in important portions of the planning of the military strike. Based on the Signal texts, it appears likely that he was absent from key portions of the decision making process.

Jared Ryan Sears, who writes The Pragmatic Humanist, offered this observation.

“Trump didn’t know about the Signal group chat or that a reporter was included. Trump says he didn’t sign the authorization to use the Enemy Alien Act to deport people without due process. His signature was on the document. Trump didn’t know that US service members went missing during a training exercise in Lithuania,” he noted. “What kind of leader knows nothing about what his administration is doing, what he himself is doing, and what is happening with the military he is in charge of?”

Attorney, Republican, and former U.S. Representative Barbara Comstock on Wednesday shared her concerns via social media.

“There is no adult supervision at the White House. Grandpa does not know what is going on except on the Golf Chanel or if someone takes a bad picture of him. Where’s Melania? Does he have a COS or caretaker?”

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Passwords, Contact Info for Top Trump NatSec Officials ‘Publicly’ Available: Report

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Highly sensitive information belonging to several top national security officials from the Trump administration—including passwords and cell phone numbers linked to their Signal accounts—is publicly available online. The encrypted messaging app was used in a major breach of classified national security information earlier this month, according to a leading German news outlet, DER SPIEGEL, which concluded that it is “conceivable that foreign agents were privy to the Signal chat group” discussions.

“DER SPIEGEL reporters were able to find mobile phone numbers, email addresses and even some passwords belonging to the top officials,” the news site reported Wednesday. The top officials include National Security Adviser Mike Waltz, Director of National Intelligence Tulsi Gabbard, and Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth—all of whom were part of the Signal chat in which a military attack was mapped out and carried out.

The sensitive information has been used by the three top officials in various ways, and reportedly remains in use.

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Some are “linked to profiles on social media platforms like Instagram and LinkedIn. They were used to create Dropbox accounts and profiles in apps that track running data. There are also WhatsApp profiles for the respective phone numbers and even Signal accounts in some cases.”

U.S. Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth’s data was “particularly easy for DER SPIEGEL reporters to discover,” including his cell phone number and email address.”

The reporters “turned to a commercial provider of contact information that is primarily used by companies for sales, marketing and recruitment,” and then they “sent the provider a link to Hegseth’s LinkedIn profile and received a Gmail address and a mobile phone number in return, in addition to other information.”

“A search of leaked user data revealed that the email address and, in some cases, even the password associated with it, could be found in over 20 publicly accessible leaks. Using publicly available information, it was possible to verify that the email address was used just a few days ago.”

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The DER SPIEGEL investigation, it said, also “revealed an additional grave, previously unknown security breach at the highest levels in Washington. Hostile intelligence services could use this publicly available data to hack the communications of those affected by installing spyware on their devices.”

But National Security Advisor Mike Waltz’s data was also easily accessed, including “several passwords for Waltz’s email address in leaked databases. The information also led to Waltz’s profiles for Microsoft Teams, LinkedIn, WhatsApp and Signal.”

“DER SPIEGEL reporting has demonstrated, though, that privately used and publicly accessible telephone numbers belonging to [Gabbard] and Waltz are, in fact, linked to Signal accounts,” the German news outlet states. “It is thus conceivable that foreign agents were privy to the Signal chat group in which Gabbard, Waltz and Hegseth discussed a military strike.”

That essentially voids the arguments made by the Trump administration, Republican lawmakers, and right-wing news outlets which have said that the military strikes were successful, and no Americans were harmed so the breach of national security is, as President Trump claimed, a mere “glitch.”

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