Tweet Of The Day: Focus On The Family On How To Have Sex

Focus on the Family, the not-a-hate-group founded by iconic religious right veteran and evangelical Christian James Dobson, last night tweeted to its followers a “how to” on how to have sex…

 

  …prompting one “follower” to ask a few follow-up questions:

Dobson, who left Focus on the Family in 2003, created the anti-gay hate group Family Research Council in 1981. The Southern Poverty Law Center added the Family Research Council to its list of active anti-gay hate groups in 2010.

Wikipedia offers this background on Dobson and homosexuality:

Dobson believes that God defines marriage as between one man and one woman only and describes this as the central stabilizing institution of society. Dobson believes that any sexual activity outside of such a union — including homosexuality — cannot be approved by God. In Dobson’s view, homosexuality is a choice that is made through influences in a child’s environment rather than an inborn trait. He states that homosexual behavior, specifically “unwanted same-sex attraction”, has been and can be “overcome” through understanding developmental models for homosexuality and choosing to heal the complex developmental issues which led to same-sex attraction.

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Focus on the Family ministry sponsors the monthly conference Love Won Out, where participants hear “powerful stories of ex-gay men and women.” Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (P-FLAG) has protested against the conference in Orlando, questioning both its methodology and supposed success. In regards to the conference, Dobson has stated that “Gay activists come with preconceived notions about who we are and what we believe and about the hate that boils from within, which is simply not true. Regardless of what the media might say, Focus on the Family has no interest in promoting hatred toward homosexuals or anyone else. We also don’t wish to deprive them of their basic constitutional rights… The Constitution applies to all of us.” Dobson strongly opposes the movement to legitimize same-sex relationships. In his book Bringing Up Boys, Dobson states that “The second thing we know is that the disorder is not typically “chosen.” Homosexuals deeply resent being told that they selected this same-sex inclination in pursuit of sexual excitement or some other motive. It is unfair, and I don’t blame them for being irritated by that assumption. Who among us would knowingly choose a path that would result in alienation from family, rejection by friends, disdain from the heterosexual world, exposure to sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS and tuberculosis, and even a shorter lifespan?”

Sociologist Judith Stacey criticized Dobson for claiming that sociological studies show that gay couples do not make good parents. She stated that Dobson’s claim “is a direct misrepresentation of my research.” In response to Dobson’s claim that “there have been more than ten thousand studies that have showed that children do best when they are raised with a mother and a father who are committed to each other,” Stacey replied that “[a]ll of those studies that Dobson is referring to are studies that did not include gay or lesbian parents as part of the research base.”

Dobson objected to a bill expanding the prohibition of sexual orientation-based discrimination in the areas of “public accommodation, housing practices, family planning services and twenty other areas.” He said that, were such a bill passed, public businesses could no longer separate locker rooms and bathrooms by gender, which he claimed would lead to a situation where, “every woman and little girl will have to fear that apredator, bisexual, cross-dresser or even a homosexual or heterosexual male might walk in and relieve himself in their presence.”